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big-brother-watching-youGreetings Hamptons MouthPiece Readers…..Big Brother is Always Watching
Has social media and texting decreased your phone time? When is the last time you called a friend to hear their voice? Everyone is so busy all the time that they do not make the time to pick up the phone to call a friend. I find when I speak to some of my friends on the phone, I feel rushed like they are keeping watch of the time and therefore the conversation feels weird and often times one-sided. I realize that I am a talker and can often talk for a long time but I am also incredibly busy and if I have made the time to talk to you on the phone it must say something about our friendship. Texting has become a way of life to many people that goes back almost 20 years when AIM was introduced with AOL….since then the technology has advanced and now you can have your chat all the time wherever you are. I wonder how many people use SKYPE to communicate face to face, that would be a welcome relief and more personal and even better than texting on the phone.

phone+askew-71055980Has America become to reliant on the advancement of technology? It used to be a time when you called a place of business and a live voice would answer the phone, today that service is only administered by very few. I don’t know about you but it frustrates me when I make a call and I get an automated recording in which it takes me nearly 15-20 minutes before I can get a live voice. I find it rude and incredibly unprofessional, but yet this is acceptable in our society because everyone is doing it. Has the position of a receptionist faded and become antiquated? Who are the gate-keepers for the abundance of sales people that come knocking on your door everyday? Where is that personal touch that makes you different than your competitor?
These my friends are all reasons why some businesses fail and other succeed….Adapting to new technology is essential but keeping some of the old-fashion ways of doing business is just as important. Our society may have tossed out using the phone for talk time and substituted for texting with friends but they have not when they are conducting business or placing an order. There has to be a balance and I am finding that many businesses are having a hard time locating that balance. Here’s food for thought…..would you advertise with a company that has a live person that answers the phone or a company that never answers the phone and you are left to deal with the automated service. We all would like to save money on services, but is it worth saving a few pennies and not have the customer service. I choose to spend more money for better customer service if I need to use it. I like texting, sending emails and chatting with friends on Facebook, but that can sometimes be impersonal and hearing someone’s voice or seeing them in person is priceless, warm and embracing.

I leave you with this thought….BIG BROTHER IS ALWAYS WATCHING and not everything should be said in an email or by text….just saying……

GreetingsHamptons Mouthpiece Readers.…what’s going on in the Hamptons and the East End? Is it really becoming the place to be in the winter months…Many think is closes its doors and hibernates until the Spring. You will see listed below that is further from the truth. It is true there are many businesses that lock their dooors and go on vacation, but there are many that do not. There is much to do, so put on those dancing shoes and that sparkly blouse and lets have some fun because this is an exciting month…

For starters ITS SUPERBOWL SUNDAY ON 2/5 and our beloved GIANTS are in the Superbowl this year.

February is also Black History Month,Valentines Day and National Wear Red month in celebration of American Heart Month.
Here are my picks for the month. If you would like to see an entire list of events, take a look at the several publications that post the list. www.danspapers.com, www.27east.com, www.curbedhamptons.com and many others that I am sure you can find on google. This is alittle long, I tried to shorten it as much as I could. ENJOY!


February 2nd, 2012

TFT 3rd Annual Swimsuit Show at Southampton Public House: Wow what’s not to love seeing both men and women strut their stuff in bathing suits..Warm up your winter with this fun swimsuit show to benefit the annual teen bereavement camp. DJ, Silent Auction, Open Bar………..great food, great fun for a wonderful cause
Place: Southampton Publick House

Time: 7PM

Ticket: $50 per person

Friday nights @ 75 Main with DJCHILE @ 75 MAIN ~OFFICIAL WELCOME BACK PARTY~ EVERY1 FREE 11.30pm

This Friday, The Montauk Project at PAGE, 63 Main, Sag Harbor

Friday 2/310pm-2am

Place: PAGE on Main Street in Sag Harbor

Specials: $3 domestic and $5 Draft Specials

North Fork Casino Night At The Vineyards In Aquebogue

Fourth Annual Casino Night! Slots and tables! Chinese Auction! Music! Food & Fun! Prizes for Top Winners. To prepare for the big night ahead, many are looking at this website to brush up on their gambling skills so that they can be on the ball when it comes to playing. As they say, practice makes perfect so practicing gives you a better chance of winning!

When: Friday, February 3 @ 6:30 pm

Where: The Vineyards 978 Main Road (Route 25), Aquebogue,Aquebogue,11931

Long Island North Fork Wine Tours And Tasting

North Fork Wine Tours specializes in personalized and guided tours of the LI wineries. Go on a behind the scenes tour of the Vineyard and hear a description of why the L I Wines are similar to Bordeaux wines. Visit five Wineries and enjoy live music. Lunch, dinner and accommodation packages…

When:?Saturday, February 4 @ 9:30 am

Where:?Long Island North Fork Wine Tours and Tasting ?131 Front Street, Greenport,North Fork,

In Celebration of Black History Month VISUAL HERITAGE III:

4 Contemporary Artists

SHEILA BATISTE**NANETTE CARTER** DANNY SIMMONS **FRANK WIMBERLEY

February 1-29, 2012

Poetry reading and book signing featuring Danny Simmons: Saturday Feb. 4, 2:30

curated by Arlene Bujese

Southampton Cultural Center Levitas Center for The Arts 25 Pond Lane, Southampton, ny 11969**631-287-4377 www.scc-arts.org?

Gallery hours: Monday – Saturday 12-4 or by appointment

SYS Super Bash

Saturday 2/4/12 7pm-11pm*****$50 per person / $65 at the door

Place: 230 Elm Street Southampton

Join SYS for the best party of the year. The 2nd Annual Super Bash.

Great Raffle with 3 fantastic prize packages. Play Heads or Tails and have the chance to win $250 per game. Also join the SYS Derby. Races to held all night long. This is going to be tons of fun.. So Get Your Game On and your dancing shoes… cause this is the SUPER BASH!***Music by Michael of EAST END DJ’s

Open Bar from 7:00 – 10:00pm**Cash Bar – 10:00 pm – 11:00pm

PhotographybyKurt will be in the house that night as well…so stop on by and have your picture taken with one of the Hamptons Top Photographers…1/3 of the proceeds will be donated to Southampton Youth Service

New Event **IT’S A LADIES NIGHT OUT

To Support FIGHTING CHANCE*

Wednesday, February 8th*6:30-8:30PM*
The American Hotel in Sag Harbor

Cocktails and Hors d’Oeuvres**$50 at the door
Hosted by: Sarah Amaden – Edwina Annicelli – Allison Babcock – Sabrina Bistrian – Roxanne Briggs Anna Clejan – Stephanie DiTullio – Lorna Dreher – Laurie Gordon – Susan Holgate – Ellie Jannetti – Luisa Kane – Beverley Murphy – Susan Nieland – Adeline Neubert – Shelley Peters – Fairley Pilaro – Samone Ritz – Claudia Taglich – Jenn Wilson*Maybe Hamptons MouthPiece will show up at this event….

Date: Thrusday February 9th****4pm-10pm
Carol Baldwin Breast Cancer Foundation Charity Fundraiser
Place: Savanna’s Restaurant…268 Elm Street, Southampton, NY

On Thursday, February 9, 2012, The Carol M Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund, focused on finding a cure and raising awareness about the importance of early and regularly scheduled examinations for both men and women will be participating in Savanna’s of Southamptons Guest Chef Series. The series is the brainchild of Johndavid Hensley renown chef in the restaurant’s efforts to support the community by donating all receipts from the nights Guest Chef Inspired Signature dish to the charity being? featured. On this night, guest chef’s and co-owners at Christopher/Thomas Catering, Tom Fabbri and Chris Konstantinidis have collaborated with fellow Guest Chef’s Dr. Brian O’Hea, Dr. Joseph DeBellis and Fran Ericsson to create a signature dish for all to enjoy . The entire menu will also be offered to dining guests. For reservations call 631-283-0202. Savanna’s
Bachelor Auction! Benefit for the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation

Thursday, February 9th 6-10PM

The Blue Lagoon••677 Route 109, West Babylon, NY 11704-4112

The Corridor is proud to support the First Annual CF Bachelor’s Auction on

ADMISSION-$5.00

MEN- Age 21-75! Register yourself for the bidding for $25.00

WOMEN-Age 21-99!Purchase a bidding paddle for $20.00, which will be credited to the purchase price of the bachelor of your choice.

The “date” will be at a complimentary Blue Lagoon luncheon on February 12, 2012, noon to 2pm.`Sponsorships are available and will be printed in the event program.
Bachelors! Purchasers! Sponsors! Audience! Join us for a great time while contributing for Cystic Fibrosis research. To register as a bachelor, become a sponsor, or for more information,
please contact Svetlana Sobel — [email protected]

HarborFrost Gala Celebration**A Benefit for the Yard Program
Friday, February 10th, 7-10PM

Place: PAGE Restaurant, 63 Main Street, Sag Harbor

Music, Dancing, Dinner-by-the-bite (not quite sure what that is), Drink Specials, Auction and much more……Tickets $25 in advance/$30 at the door
Tickets can be bought at the Wharf Shop in Sag Harbor or call 725-5302 ext:750 (ADULT ONLY EVENT)

7th Annual Love & Passion “Sex, Drugs & Rock’n’Roll”

Saturday, February 11th 5PM-8PM
Ashawagh Hall, The Springs, East Hampton

The BIGGEST Show in the Hamptons off season..not that it is saying much..

Open Call For artists***Art Work Must be in Theme

All questions: Email [email protected] for details

FUN’raiser and QUIZ SHOW Contest

Saturday, February 11th ******7-10PM**B’ Smith Restaurant, Sag Harbor

The Sag Harbor Booster Foundation presents the 1st Annual FUNraiser and Quiz Show Contest. Beer/Wine Cash Bar. Light Dinner.

Raffle, 50/50, Auction

$25 in advance / $30 at the door.

Come Watch or Play.

For Tickets and more information, please call 631-495-2333.

Anti-Valentines MASSACRE!

BEYOND the EAST End…I added this one, because I thought it was too funny..

BA-Humba Valentine’s Day…

Tuesday…February 14th 9PM-2AM ****660 west 42ndst.

Whether you’re a homewrecker, serial dater, bad boyfriend, TubeV Sex addict, the other woman, come to this flirt fest while enjoying free drinks, kissing booths, lingerie, dirty toys, prize giveaways, and DJS spinning music all day!

Priscilla Jade Lingerie Fashion Show!!!

Benefiting Seven Star Animal Sanctuary! ? ? ?

Order tickets via Eventbrite:

Pierson High School POPS Concert

Wednesday, February 15, 2012 7PM-10PM

These students are incredibly talented…

Place: Pierson HS, Sag Harbor
Valentine’s Weekend: Renew Your Vows Event

Saturday, February 11th*****430pm-730pm

Place: Gurney’s Inn resort & Spa…290 Old Montauk Hwy, Montauk

Annual Renew Your Vows Valentines weekend in Montauk. Celebrity Judge Jim Ketchum is for the 15th time renewing wedding vows at Gurney’s Inn Resort & Spa on February 11th 2012 at 4:30pm & February 14th 2012 at 4:30pm. Judge Jim Ketchum is requesting a $10 per person donation for the Montauk Food Pantry. Includes wedding cake, Champagne toast and an official wedding renewal certificate. Must RSVP: 631.668.1737

Candlelight Fridays At Wölffer Estate Vineyard

Come in from the cold and enjoy some hot music! Wines by the glass or bottle, and cheese and charcuterie plates for purchase. Every Friday from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. in the winery tasting room. No cover charge.

When: Friday’s @ 5:00 pm

Where:?Wolffer Estate Winery ?139 Sagg Road,Sagaponack,11962

The Old Whalers’ Church in Sag Harbor will be hosting its annual Valentine’s Potluck on Sunday, February 12 from 5-7pm.

Place: Old Whaler’s Church*** 44 Union Street, Sag Harbor

The community is invited to join the fun!

There will be children’s games, great conversation and a potluck dinner.

Bring a dish to share and come to the First Presbyterian Church (Old Whalers…Questions? Please call 725-0894.

The Politics of it All:The Quest for Answers – Councilwoman Bridget Fleming

Thursday, February 16, 2012 **** 7PM-830PM

Place: Bridgehampton Child Care & Recreational Center, 551 Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton, NY

The Bridgehampton Child Care and Recreational Center along with the Eastern Long Island NAACP will be presenting Councilwoman Bridget “The Politics of it All:The Quest for Answers”. This is a opportunity to sit down in a living room setting and roll-up our sleeves and discuss topics that are important to the immediate community with Councilwoman Fleming. For more information, feel free to contact The Center on (631)537-0616

LET’S PARTY LIKE WE ARE IN NEW ORLEANS!

Mardi Gras at Wolffer Estate

Wear Your Best New Orleans Party Mask and dancing shoes and hed on out to the Wolffer Estate Vineyard for the 1st Annual Mardi Gras Masked Celebration.

Date: Saturday, February 18th at 8PM

Prizes for best Mask…Dancing…Desserts and much much more

Tickets are $50 Per Person…Reservations are a MUST!

Bridal/Event Showcase at Gurney’s Inn

Saturday, February 18th, 10am-4PM

Gurney’s Inn resort & Spa…290 Old Montauk Hwy, Montauk

Planning a wedding….Then you do not want to miss this event.

North Fork for Long Island Winterfest, six weeks of Jazz on the Vine. www.liwines.com for info about the jazz performances, and to www.thestirlinghouse.comto book your stay. Winterfest 2012 runs from Feb 18 – March 11, 2012. There are amazing artists playing each weekend
Upcoming event in March…

9th ANNUAL RED DRESS DINNER GIRLS NIGHT OUT

Please join us for a night of fun with family, friends & co-workers!

Date: Friday, March 9, 2012?Location: Sea Star Ballroom at the Hyatt?431 East Main Street, Riverhead, NY?Time: 7:00 – 11:00 p.m.?Ticket Prices: $75 PP in advance & $85 PP at the door?(Tickets will include: one complimentary cocktail, passed hors d’oeuvres, a sit-down dinner, cash bar, DJ entertainment, dancing & Chinese auction)

The Red Dress is the National Symbol for Women and Heart Disease Awareness: “Heart disease, stroke, and other cardiovascular diseases (CVD) are the No. 1 cause of death in American women, claiming about 432,000 lives each year, or nearly one death each minute.”?-American Heart Association

Grab your heels & that little red dress It’s time for a girls night out?To raise Heart Disease Awareness!


Well Hamptons MouthPiece readers these are my picks for the month of February…I can’t believe how quickly January went….It amazes me how quickly the years start flying by as soon as you turn 25…I did not want to believe it when I was 25. If you are having an event and you want your events to be included in my blogs then it is best to post on my HAMPTONS MOUTHPIECE FACEBOOK PAGE. GO GIANTS! Have fun to all of you preparing for your Super Bowl parties and try to keep it all in FUN and be sensible if you’re going to be placing super bowl bets online….as for me I am keeping it low key for most of the weekend, but I will be at the SYS Super Bash on Saturday night, and probaly watching the Super Bowl alone on Sunday night. So be safe, no drinking and Driving…and be responsible…no letting friends drive if they have been drinking at your home. Hamptons MouthPiece “We do the Talking for you” providing you with information that you may not know. Hamptons MouthPiece keeping you informed!

Greetings Hamptons MouthPiece Readers….Special Announcement regarding a possible Pierson/Baystreet Theatre Partnership.


Special Board of Education Meeting
with Bay Street Theater
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
6:00 p.m.
Pierson Middle/High School Library
 
Agenda
I.          Introduction of Board members
II.         What are the needs of the Bay Street Theater?
III.        What are the tentative plans of the School District?
IV.        How could the two entities work together?



Please come out to this special Board meeting……

photo-1Greetings Hamptons MouthPiece Readers....It’s the 2nd Annual HARBORFROST weekend in Sag Harbor, whose ready to get your freeze on for the Polar Bear Plunge? I meet people all the time that say to me you live in the Hamptons full-time and I say of course people live here year-round. What’s not to believe, I remember when I use to only come out on the weekends year-round and dread going back to NYC to live my everyday life. The Hamptons are very quiet in the off-season, but it is charming and peaceful.  As a younger person I would not have been able to appreciate Sag Harbor as a year-round resident, but I can now and it is one of the most beautiful places in the world to live. I get to drive past the ocean everyday and my personal best is driving over the bridge in Sag Harbor, it has the most beautiful sunrise that just takes my breathe away. So you out there that thinks we shrivel away and hibernate in the winter, the Hamptons does not close up after Labor Day..we work, we party, we go out to eat at Restaurants that stay open year-round, we shop, Eli Tahari is open year-round, our kids go to school, BTW we are home to some of the best public schools in NYS. Sag Harbor is one of the most charming towns of which can be enjoyed all year long, take a break if you live in NYC and visit for the day or weekend.
HARBORFROST WEEKEND ACTIVITIES:
Celebration Kicks off on Friday night The Friends of Yard will be hosting a Winter Celebration Party. **Date: Friday, 2/10/12 
Time: 7pm-11pm

Tickets can be purchased at The Wharf Shop & Sag Harbor Liquors.$30 at the door.

The Friends of Yard will be hosting a Winter Celebration Party at Page 63 on Main Street. There will be a silent auction, dinner by the bite donated by local restaurants and a DJ playing music. The cost is $25.00 in advance & $30 at the door.

YARD is a vital component of our community because it provides positive activities for Sag Harbor’s youth. However, YARD is mostly funded by municipalities which have cut back their funding due to these tough economic times. Now, more than ever, we rely on the generosity of the community to help keep these critical programs intact. According to Debbie Skinner – director of the YARD program, “There’s no better way to kick-off Harborfrost weekend then to attend our gala and support the children of Sag Harbor.”
YARD is a non-profit organization that provides programs and activities designed to keep our community’s kids active, occupied, and engaged. These programs include YARD’s after school program and the wildly popular summer evening program.

harborfrostSaturday, February 11th is the 2ND ANNUAL HARBORFROST Day and one not to be missed. My favorite highlight of the day last year was the Frosty Plunge…these crazy people took the plunge…take a look at some of the photo’s from that event…PHOTOGRAPHY BY KURT … For more information on the event please contact the Sag Harbor Chamber of Commerce.
Event Date: Saturday, February 11th 3-6pm…I am told that the Frosty Plunge will be the highlight again this year and they will be selling t-shirts…take a look at last years video and see if you find my cameo appearance.
After enjoying the days events at HarborFrost. stay a little longer as the evening continues for a FUN’raiser QUIZ SHOW CONTEST.
Date: Saturday evening February 11th
Place:B’ Smith’s after the fireworks exhibition. 
Time: Doors open at 7:00pm and the quiz bowl begins at 7:30pm and festivities should wind down at 10:30-11:00pm.  Admission is $25 in advance and $30.00 at the door.  It is encouraged advance ticket purchases so that your team is guaranteed a table and admission.   Teams of 4-5 people will compete. Attendees will be assigned tables of 4-5 or 2 teams in a table of 8.  Those that currently do not have a team will be put on a team on the night of the Fun’Raiser! Not to worry…  So get ready for lots of laughs, good fun and good food/beer and wine all evening!
MC of the evening is Mr. Sean Kelly, there will be raffles, Chinese auctions, a $20,00 Super raffle to WIN a a foursome at Atlantic Golf Club that also can be purchased in advance and POP question prizes.  The winner of the Quiz show evening will receive a First place prize of $400.  All interested in purchasing advance tickets for the event and raffles can call the phone # on the Flyer, stop in at the Sag Harbor Express or contact any of our board members.
Information is also on the website sagharborboosterfoundation.org
You do not have to be a Sag Harbor resident to come out and enjoy the day. If you live in the Hamptons spend the day in Sag Harbor with your family, enjoy the beautiful boutique stores, the amazing restaurants, stop by our really unique bookstore on Main street…Visitors perfect getaway weekend to spend in the Hamptons…The shopping is amazing, many winter sales and the introduction of the new Spring and summer lines for new fashions in the Hamptons this summer. Hotels and Inns in the Hamptons are incredibly affordable in the winter and you will definitely enjoy your stay. So pack that overnight bag and come on out and enjoy a weekend in the Hamptons…Lets get your Freeze on the Hamptons way.

Greetings Hamptons Mouthpiece readers...Last weekend I hosted a “Celebration of Women, Toast to the New Year” Breakfast. I was unsure how many women were going to attend because I had received so many cancellations but to my surprise there were nearly 25 women at the this breakfast. I was so excited because it was a blessing to be in a room filled with women from all walks of life, strong women, mothers, business women. Everyone invited was asked to bring a gift under $25, something to share at the breakfast (champagne or a dish) and 1 item for the food pantry. We had so much food, much of which came from the new Sag Harbor Bakery, if you have never been to this bakery you must stop by and say hello to the owners Margaret and Mimi. They made sure that no one brought doubles to the breakfast and therefore we had an assortment of baked goods.

Dutch Petals donated the floral arrangement that looked so perfect that many did not realize that these were real flowers.
After everyone mingled, talked with old friends, met new friends, my good friends re-decorated my living room it was time to gather everyone in a circle and begin. I started by introducing myself and thanking everyone for attending, then asked the women to introduce themselves and tell the group how they spend their time. Many of the Women would say I am just a mom and I would intervene and say you are more than a Mom and point out all of their wonderful attributes. It then became contagious and each time another woman would introduce herself and be so modest about what she does there was another woman there to share with the group the amazing accomplishments of that woman. It was one of the best days of my life being in a room filled with so much positive energy. I was in awe of these women and the things they were doing and I felt so excited to have put this together my vision of the day had been accomplishment and well received. What really made the day so special was that I was able to take over 2 huge boxes of food to the Sag Harbor food Pantry and they were just so appreciative. I was in awe of the people that donate their time to helping others and I suddenly realized God’s purpose for me. My purpose is to help others, I am a giver and I love to give and to help, but I will not be taken advantage of. Over the last few months many people have abused my kindness and therefore I have been forced to make some changes with regard to those people, but I will still stay on God’s journey for me and that is to help others.

I wanted to put together a list of the women who attended and point out what they did, but I realized that I do not have a completed list and therefore I will need to host another “Celebration of Women” and this time I will be more prepared to make that list public. My sole objective is to do what men over decades have been doing and that is networking among themselves. Women tend to not do these things and often times our businesses do not grow at the same speed a man’s business grows.

The next “Celebration of Women” will be in July in the Hamptons and this is one not to be missed. It will be a brunch because I just do not enjoy breakfast as much as I do lunch…so it will be a brunch. I am hoping to have as many as 50 women uniting together, making new friends and promoting their business to the group for our support. I am looking for ideas to make the next event even better than the 1st one. If you are interested in being added to the guest list be sure to pop me an email at [email protected].
Hamptons Mouthpiece is going to be doing some new and exciting things this year are you on-board for the ride?