I feel 30 years younger.
Here’s why…


Youth is a whole mood. I feel 30 years younger. Here’s why… There comes a moment when you wake up, stretch, and your body says, “Oh, we are doing amazing today.” Not “my knees sound like a percussion section.” Not “I need five minutes and a prayer to get out of bed.” No. Amazing.

Real Talk. Real People. I literally feel 30 years younger. And listen… that did not happen because I stumbled on a sale for magic supplements on Instagram. It happened because I finally did the one thing that changes everything.

I chose me!

For decades, I poured into everyone else’s cup, my family, my work, my community. If someone needed something, I was there faster than overnight delivery. Meanwhile, I was surviving on caffeine, stress, and a “maybe I’ll sleep next month” mentality.

Then one day, I woke up with a whole new energy. Not today. Not anymore. And when a woman chooses herself? The glow is undeniable.

My body started responding like: Oh! You love us now? Say less. I slept. I moved my body. I nourished myself like someone I care about. I set boundaries that were not up for negotiation. I healed, not the cute social-media kind, the real, tear-streaked, deep kind.

Suddenly… energy. Strength. Joy. Feeling young again is not shallow; it is survival. It is honoring your body before it quits on you. It is saying yes to life again. It is reclaiming every part of you that got lost while you were busy holding everyone else together.

Healing is hot. Mental peace is juicy. Self-respect is the facelift you do not need to finance. The more I chase joy, the more joy chases me right back. I wake up excited. I move like I have somewhere fabulous to be, even if it’s just the kitchen. My heart beats with possibility.

Aging isn’t the enemy. Abandoning yourself is. I spent years putting everyone first. Now I’m leading my own parade, and trust me, the band is playing loudly.

What I know for sure: you cannot bloom if you keep watering everyone else’s garden but your own. Self-care is not selfish. It is survival. And if this is what survival looks like? Honey, I’m ready to thrive.

Thirty years younger? Let’s upgrade it to timeless.

Real Talk. Real People. Youth is a whole mood — and I am living it loudly.

  • ☐ Power down screens 60 minutes before bed
  • ☐ Bedroom = dark, cool, quiet (sleep sanctuary vibes)
  • ☐ Same sleep + wake time every day (yes, even weekends)
  • ☐ Sip something soothing: chamomile, magnesium, tart cherry
  • ☐ Gratitude brain dump: 3 things → peace of mind → better REM
  • ☐ 30–45 min movement most days (walk, dance, bike, live your life)
  • ☐ Strength training 2–3x weekly (muscle = youth insurance)
  • ☐ Stretch or mobility work daily (hips and joints don’t lie)
  • ☐ Sneaky NEAT: stairs, parking far, house grooves
  • ☐ Track steps to stay honest — aim for progress not perfection

Say these with your whole chest:

  • ☐ “That won’t work for me.”
  • ☐ “I’m not available for that.”
  • ☐ “No — and thank you for understanding.”
  • ☐ “Let me get back to you once I check my priorities.”
  • ☐ “I don’t explain my no.”
    Boundaries = energy Botox.
  • ☐ Laugh every day. Extra points for snort laughs.
  • ☐ Schedule delight: 1 tiny joy before noon
  • ☐ Nature time (trees are cheaper than therapy)
  • ☐ Music that makes you feel 25 again
  • ☐ Hug people who fuel you, not drain you
  • ☐ Hydrate like it’s your full-time job
  • ☐ Stay curious — learn something new weekly
  • ☐ Wear sunscreen (yes, winter too)
  • ☐ Release the drama, increase the peace
  • ☐ Celebrate EVERYTHING (even small wins)

Author

Vanessa Leggard Wife. Girl mom. Digital storyteller. Community connector. I’m the founder of Hamptons Mouthpiece, a lifestyle digital publication delivering real talk from real people — covering women’s health, wellness, food, human rights, and events from NYC to the East End of Long Island. Whether I’m spotlighting local voices, stirring up bold conversations, or sharing stories that matter, I’m here to inform, inspire, and amplify. I’m also a seasoned social media strategist, content creator, and co-owner of Photography by Kurt. Everything I do is rooted in purpose, creativity, and a deep love for the communities I serve.

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