*The Silent Struggle: Fibroids, Cysts & Women’s Health
I’ve been blessed not to personally experience the pain of fibroids or ovarian cysts—but I’ve watched women I love suffer for years in silence. Friends, family, sisters in my community—carrying the weight of heavy bleeding, unbearable cramps, and the fear of not knowing what’s going on in their own bodies. They pushed through workdays, family obligations, and life, while privately battling pain that should have been taken seriously from the start.
For many women—especially Black women—this is not a rare story.
• Fibroids are noncancerous growths in the uterus, but they can cause heavy periods, intense cramping, pelvic pressure, and even infertility. Black women are more likely to develop them, and they often show up earlier, grow larger, and cause more severe symptoms.
• Ovarian cysts can quietly exist without symptoms—but when they cause pain, it’s not subtle. Bloating, sharp pelvic aches, and even hospital trips are part of the reality.
• Dermoid cysts are a different type altogether—benign growths that come from undeveloped cells you’re born with. They can contain tissue like hair, skin, or teeth (yes, really) and often go unnoticed for years. Because their symptoms—pelvic pain, pressure, bloating—can mimic fibroids, they’re sometimes misdiagnosed. The only way to confirm their presence is through imaging, like a sonogram, which can lead to surgery if they’re large or causing complications.
And then there’s dysmenorrhea—painful periods—that so many women dismiss as “normal,” even when it’s a sign of something deeper.
The heartbreaking part? Too many suffer in silence because they’ve been told, directly or indirectly, that women’s pain is something to “tough out.” Add in the racial disparities in healthcare—where Black women’s symptoms are often dismissed or downplayed—and it’s a perfect storm for delayed diagnoses and unnecessary suffering.
Here’s what I’ve learned from the women who’ve shared their stories with me:
1. Listen to your body. Pain, heavy bleeding, bloating, and fatigue are not things you should just “get used to.”
2. Push for answers. If a doctor brushes you off, find another one. You deserve to be heard.
3. Break the silence. Talking about your experience can help another woman recognize she’s not alone.
Fibroids, cysts, and other reproductive health conditions are not just “women’s problems”—they’re human problems. They affect our families, our work, our emotional well-being. The more we share, the less anyone has to suffer alone.
Real talk, real people—your health matters. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.



