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big-brother-watching-youGreetings Hamptons MouthPiece Readers…..Big Brother is Always Watching
Has social media and texting decreased your phone time? When is the last time you called a friend to hear their voice? Everyone is so busy all the time that they do not make the time to pick up the phone to call a friend. I find when I speak to some of my friends on the phone, I feel rushed like they are keeping watch of the time and therefore the conversation feels weird and often times one-sided. I realize that I am a talker and can often talk for a long time but I am also incredibly busy and if I have made the time to talk to you on the phone it must say something about our friendship. Texting has become a way of life to many people that goes back almost 20 years when AIM was introduced with AOL….since then the technology has advanced and now you can have your chat all the time wherever you are. I wonder how many people use SKYPE to communicate face to face, that would be a welcome relief and more personal and even better than texting on the phone.

phone+askew-71055980Has America become to reliant on the advancement of technology? It used to be a time when you called a place of business and a live voice would answer the phone, today that service is only administered by very few. I don’t know about you but it frustrates me when I make a call and I get an automated recording in which it takes me nearly 15-20 minutes before I can get a live voice. I find it rude and incredibly unprofessional, but yet this is acceptable in our society because everyone is doing it. Has the position of a receptionist faded and become antiquated? Who are the gate-keepers for the abundance of sales people that come knocking on your door everyday? Where is that personal touch that makes you different than your competitor?
These my friends are all reasons why some businesses fail and other succeed….Adapting to new technology is essential but keeping some of the old-fashion ways of doing business is just as important. Our society may have tossed out using the phone for talk time and substituted for texting with friends but they have not when they are conducting business or placing an order. There has to be a balance and I am finding that many businesses are having a hard time locating that balance. Here’s food for thought…..would you advertise with a company that has a live person that answers the phone or a company that never answers the phone and you are left to deal with the automated service. We all would like to save money on services, but is it worth saving a few pennies and not have the customer service. I choose to spend more money for better customer service if I need to use it. I like texting, sending emails and chatting with friends on Facebook, but that can sometimes be impersonal and hearing someone’s voice or seeing them in person is priceless, warm and embracing.

I leave you with this thought….BIG BROTHER IS ALWAYS WATCHING and not everything should be said in an email or by text….just saying……

GreetingsHamptons Mouthpiece Readers.…what’s going on in the Hamptons and the East End? Is it really becoming the place to be in the winter months…Many think is closes its doors and hibernates until the Spring. You will see listed below that is further from the truth. It is true there are many businesses that lock their dooors and go on vacation, but there are many that do not. There is much to do, so put on those dancing shoes and that sparkly blouse and lets have some fun because this is an exciting month…

For starters ITS SUPERBOWL SUNDAY ON 2/5 and our beloved GIANTS are in the Superbowl this year.

February is also Black History Month,Valentines Day and National Wear Red month in celebration of American Heart Month.
Here are my picks for the month. If you would like to see an entire list of events, take a look at the several publications that post the list. www.danspapers.com, www.27east.com, www.curbedhamptons.com and many others that I am sure you can find on google. This is alittle long, I tried to shorten it as much as I could. ENJOY!


February 2nd, 2012

TFT 3rd Annual Swimsuit Show at Southampton Public House: Wow what’s not to love seeing both men and women strut their stuff in bathing suits..Warm up your winter with this fun swimsuit show to benefit the annual teen bereavement camp. DJ, Silent Auction, Open Bar………..great food, great fun for a wonderful cause
Place: Southampton Publick House

Time: 7PM

Ticket: $50 per person

Friday nights @ 75 Main with DJCHILE @ 75 MAIN ~OFFICIAL WELCOME BACK PARTY~ EVERY1 FREE 11.30pm

This Friday, The Montauk Project at PAGE, 63 Main, Sag Harbor

Friday 2/310pm-2am

Place: PAGE on Main Street in Sag Harbor

Specials: $3 domestic and $5 Draft Specials

North Fork Casino Night At The Vineyards In Aquebogue

Fourth Annual Casino Night! Slots and tables! Chinese Auction! Music! Food & Fun! Prizes for Top Winners. To prepare for the big night ahead, many are looking at this website to brush up on their gambling skills so that they can be on the ball when it comes to playing. As they say, practice makes perfect so practicing gives you a better chance of winning!

When: Friday, February 3 @ 6:30 pm

Where: The Vineyards 978 Main Road (Route 25), Aquebogue,Aquebogue,11931

Long Island North Fork Wine Tours And Tasting

North Fork Wine Tours specializes in personalized and guided tours of the LI wineries. Go on a behind the scenes tour of the Vineyard and hear a description of why the L I Wines are similar to Bordeaux wines. Visit five Wineries and enjoy live music. Lunch, dinner and accommodation packages…

When:?Saturday, February 4 @ 9:30 am

Where:?Long Island North Fork Wine Tours and Tasting ?131 Front Street, Greenport,North Fork,

In Celebration of Black History Month VISUAL HERITAGE III:

4 Contemporary Artists

SHEILA BATISTE**NANETTE CARTER** DANNY SIMMONS **FRANK WIMBERLEY

February 1-29, 2012

Poetry reading and book signing featuring Danny Simmons: Saturday Feb. 4, 2:30

curated by Arlene Bujese

Southampton Cultural Center Levitas Center for The Arts 25 Pond Lane, Southampton, ny 11969**631-287-4377 www.scc-arts.org?

Gallery hours: Monday – Saturday 12-4 or by appointment

SYS Super Bash

Saturday 2/4/12 7pm-11pm*****$50 per person / $65 at the door

Place: 230 Elm Street Southampton

Join SYS for the best party of the year. The 2nd Annual Super Bash.

Great Raffle with 3 fantastic prize packages. Play Heads or Tails and have the chance to win $250 per game. Also join the SYS Derby. Races to held all night long. This is going to be tons of fun.. So Get Your Game On and your dancing shoes… cause this is the SUPER BASH!***Music by Michael of EAST END DJ’s

Open Bar from 7:00 – 10:00pm**Cash Bar – 10:00 pm – 11:00pm

PhotographybyKurt will be in the house that night as well…so stop on by and have your picture taken with one of the Hamptons Top Photographers…1/3 of the proceeds will be donated to Southampton Youth Service

New Event **IT’S A LADIES NIGHT OUT

To Support FIGHTING CHANCE*

Wednesday, February 8th*6:30-8:30PM*
The American Hotel in Sag Harbor

Cocktails and Hors d’Oeuvres**$50 at the door
Hosted by: Sarah Amaden – Edwina Annicelli – Allison Babcock – Sabrina Bistrian – Roxanne Briggs Anna Clejan – Stephanie DiTullio – Lorna Dreher – Laurie Gordon – Susan Holgate – Ellie Jannetti – Luisa Kane – Beverley Murphy – Susan Nieland – Adeline Neubert – Shelley Peters – Fairley Pilaro – Samone Ritz – Claudia Taglich – Jenn Wilson*Maybe Hamptons MouthPiece will show up at this event….

Date: Thrusday February 9th****4pm-10pm
Carol Baldwin Breast Cancer Foundation Charity Fundraiser
Place: Savanna’s Restaurant…268 Elm Street, Southampton, NY

On Thursday, February 9, 2012, The Carol M Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund, focused on finding a cure and raising awareness about the importance of early and regularly scheduled examinations for both men and women will be participating in Savanna’s of Southamptons Guest Chef Series. The series is the brainchild of Johndavid Hensley renown chef in the restaurant’s efforts to support the community by donating all receipts from the nights Guest Chef Inspired Signature dish to the charity being? featured. On this night, guest chef’s and co-owners at Christopher/Thomas Catering, Tom Fabbri and Chris Konstantinidis have collaborated with fellow Guest Chef’s Dr. Brian O’Hea, Dr. Joseph DeBellis and Fran Ericsson to create a signature dish for all to enjoy . The entire menu will also be offered to dining guests. For reservations call 631-283-0202. Savanna’s
Bachelor Auction! Benefit for the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation

Thursday, February 9th 6-10PM

The Blue Lagoon••677 Route 109, West Babylon, NY 11704-4112

The Corridor is proud to support the First Annual CF Bachelor’s Auction on

ADMISSION-$5.00

MEN- Age 21-75! Register yourself for the bidding for $25.00

WOMEN-Age 21-99!Purchase a bidding paddle for $20.00, which will be credited to the purchase price of the bachelor of your choice.

The “date” will be at a complimentary Blue Lagoon luncheon on February 12, 2012, noon to 2pm.`Sponsorships are available and will be printed in the event program.
Bachelors! Purchasers! Sponsors! Audience! Join us for a great time while contributing for Cystic Fibrosis research. To register as a bachelor, become a sponsor, or for more information,
please contact Svetlana Sobel — ssobel@sobellawpc.com

HarborFrost Gala Celebration**A Benefit for the Yard Program
Friday, February 10th, 7-10PM

Place: PAGE Restaurant, 63 Main Street, Sag Harbor

Music, Dancing, Dinner-by-the-bite (not quite sure what that is), Drink Specials, Auction and much more……Tickets $25 in advance/$30 at the door
Tickets can be bought at the Wharf Shop in Sag Harbor or call 725-5302 ext:750 (ADULT ONLY EVENT)

7th Annual Love & Passion “Sex, Drugs & Rock’n’Roll”

Saturday, February 11th 5PM-8PM
Ashawagh Hall, The Springs, East Hampton

The BIGGEST Show in the Hamptons off season..not that it is saying much..

Open Call For artists***Art Work Must be in Theme

All questions: Email karynmannix@optonline.net for details

FUN’raiser and QUIZ SHOW Contest

Saturday, February 11th ******7-10PM**B’ Smith Restaurant, Sag Harbor

The Sag Harbor Booster Foundation presents the 1st Annual FUNraiser and Quiz Show Contest. Beer/Wine Cash Bar. Light Dinner.

Raffle, 50/50, Auction

$25 in advance / $30 at the door.

Come Watch or Play.

For Tickets and more information, please call 631-495-2333.

Anti-Valentines MASSACRE!

BEYOND the EAST End…I added this one, because I thought it was too funny..

BA-Humba Valentine’s Day…

Tuesday…February 14th 9PM-2AM ****660 west 42ndst.

Whether you’re a homewrecker, serial dater, bad boyfriend, TubeV Sex addict, the other woman, come to this flirt fest while enjoying free drinks, kissing booths, lingerie, dirty toys, prize giveaways, and DJS spinning music all day!

Priscilla Jade Lingerie Fashion Show!!!

Benefiting Seven Star Animal Sanctuary! ? ? ?

Order tickets via Eventbrite:

Pierson High School POPS Concert

Wednesday, February 15, 2012 7PM-10PM

These students are incredibly talented…

Place: Pierson HS, Sag Harbor
Valentine’s Weekend: Renew Your Vows Event

Saturday, February 11th*****430pm-730pm

Place: Gurney’s Inn resort & Spa…290 Old Montauk Hwy, Montauk

Annual Renew Your Vows Valentines weekend in Montauk. Celebrity Judge Jim Ketchum is for the 15th time renewing wedding vows at Gurney’s Inn Resort & Spa on February 11th 2012 at 4:30pm & February 14th 2012 at 4:30pm. Judge Jim Ketchum is requesting a $10 per person donation for the Montauk Food Pantry. Includes wedding cake, Champagne toast and an official wedding renewal certificate. Must RSVP: 631.668.1737

Candlelight Fridays At Wölffer Estate Vineyard

Come in from the cold and enjoy some hot music! Wines by the glass or bottle, and cheese and charcuterie plates for purchase. Every Friday from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. in the winery tasting room. No cover charge.

When: Friday’s @ 5:00 pm

Where:?Wolffer Estate Winery ?139 Sagg Road,Sagaponack,11962

The Old Whalers’ Church in Sag Harbor will be hosting its annual Valentine’s Potluck on Sunday, February 12 from 5-7pm.

Place: Old Whaler’s Church*** 44 Union Street, Sag Harbor

The community is invited to join the fun!

There will be children’s games, great conversation and a potluck dinner.

Bring a dish to share and come to the First Presbyterian Church (Old Whalers…Questions? Please call 725-0894.

The Politics of it All:The Quest for Answers – Councilwoman Bridget Fleming

Thursday, February 16, 2012 **** 7PM-830PM

Place: Bridgehampton Child Care & Recreational Center, 551 Sag Harbor Turnpike, Bridgehampton, NY

The Bridgehampton Child Care and Recreational Center along with the Eastern Long Island NAACP will be presenting Councilwoman Bridget “The Politics of it All:The Quest for Answers”. This is a opportunity to sit down in a living room setting and roll-up our sleeves and discuss topics that are important to the immediate community with Councilwoman Fleming. For more information, feel free to contact The Center on (631)537-0616

LET’S PARTY LIKE WE ARE IN NEW ORLEANS!

Mardi Gras at Wolffer Estate

Wear Your Best New Orleans Party Mask and dancing shoes and hed on out to the Wolffer Estate Vineyard for the 1st Annual Mardi Gras Masked Celebration.

Date: Saturday, February 18th at 8PM

Prizes for best Mask…Dancing…Desserts and much much more

Tickets are $50 Per Person…Reservations are a MUST!

Bridal/Event Showcase at Gurney’s Inn

Saturday, February 18th, 10am-4PM

Gurney’s Inn resort & Spa…290 Old Montauk Hwy, Montauk

Planning a wedding….Then you do not want to miss this event.

North Fork for Long Island Winterfest, six weeks of Jazz on the Vine. www.liwines.com for info about the jazz performances, and to www.thestirlinghouse.comto book your stay. Winterfest 2012 runs from Feb 18 – March 11, 2012. There are amazing artists playing each weekend
Upcoming event in March…

9th ANNUAL RED DRESS DINNER GIRLS NIGHT OUT

Please join us for a night of fun with family, friends & co-workers!

Date: Friday, March 9, 2012?Location: Sea Star Ballroom at the Hyatt?431 East Main Street, Riverhead, NY?Time: 7:00 – 11:00 p.m.?Ticket Prices: $75 PP in advance & $85 PP at the door?(Tickets will include: one complimentary cocktail, passed hors d’oeuvres, a sit-down dinner, cash bar, DJ entertainment, dancing & Chinese auction)

The Red Dress is the National Symbol for Women and Heart Disease Awareness: “Heart disease, stroke, and other cardiovascular diseases (CVD) are the No. 1 cause of death in American women, claiming about 432,000 lives each year, or nearly one death each minute.”?-American Heart Association

Grab your heels & that little red dress It’s time for a girls night out?To raise Heart Disease Awareness!


Well Hamptons MouthPiece readers these are my picks for the month of February…I can’t believe how quickly January went….It amazes me how quickly the years start flying by as soon as you turn 25…I did not want to believe it when I was 25. If you are having an event and you want your events to be included in my blogs then it is best to post on my HAMPTONS MOUTHPIECE FACEBOOK PAGE. GO GIANTS! Have fun to all of you preparing for your Super Bowl parties and try to keep it all in FUN and be sensible if you’re going to be placing super bowl bets online….as for me I am keeping it low key for most of the weekend, but I will be at the SYS Super Bash on Saturday night, and probaly watching the Super Bowl alone on Sunday night. So be safe, no drinking and Driving…and be responsible…no letting friends drive if they have been drinking at your home. Hamptons MouthPiece “We do the Talking for you” providing you with information that you may not know. Hamptons MouthPiece keeping you informed!

Greetings Hamptons MouthPiece Readers….Special Announcement regarding a possible Pierson/Baystreet Theatre Partnership.


Special Board of Education Meeting
with Bay Street Theater
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
6:00 p.m.
Pierson Middle/High School Library
 
Agenda
I.          Introduction of Board members
II.         What are the needs of the Bay Street Theater?
III.        What are the tentative plans of the School District?
IV.        How could the two entities work together?



Please come out to this special Board meeting……

Greetings Hamptons Mouthpiece readers...Last weekend I hosted a “Celebration of Women, Toast to the New Year” Breakfast. I was unsure how many women were going to attend because I had received so many cancellations but to my surprise there were nearly 25 women at the this breakfast. I was so excited because it was a blessing to be in a room filled with women from all walks of life, strong women, mothers, business women. Everyone invited was asked to bring a gift under $25, something to share at the breakfast (champagne or a dish) and 1 item for the food pantry. We had so much food, much of which came from the new Sag Harbor Bakery, if you have never been to this bakery you must stop by and say hello to the owners Margaret and Mimi. They made sure that no one brought doubles to the breakfast and therefore we had an assortment of baked goods.

Dutch Petals donated the floral arrangement that looked so perfect that many did not realize that these were real flowers.
After everyone mingled, talked with old friends, met new friends, my good friends re-decorated my living room it was time to gather everyone in a circle and begin. I started by introducing myself and thanking everyone for attending, then asked the women to introduce themselves and tell the group how they spend their time. Many of the Women would say I am just a mom and I would intervene and say you are more than a Mom and point out all of their wonderful attributes. It then became contagious and each time another woman would introduce herself and be so modest about what she does there was another woman there to share with the group the amazing accomplishments of that woman. It was one of the best days of my life being in a room filled with so much positive energy. I was in awe of these women and the things they were doing and I felt so excited to have put this together my vision of the day had been accomplishment and well received. What really made the day so special was that I was able to take over 2 huge boxes of food to the Sag Harbor food Pantry and they were just so appreciative. I was in awe of the people that donate their time to helping others and I suddenly realized God’s purpose for me. My purpose is to help others, I am a giver and I love to give and to help, but I will not be taken advantage of. Over the last few months many people have abused my kindness and therefore I have been forced to make some changes with regard to those people, but I will still stay on God’s journey for me and that is to help others.

I wanted to put together a list of the women who attended and point out what they did, but I realized that I do not have a completed list and therefore I will need to host another “Celebration of Women” and this time I will be more prepared to make that list public. My sole objective is to do what men over decades have been doing and that is networking among themselves. Women tend to not do these things and often times our businesses do not grow at the same speed a man’s business grows.

The next “Celebration of Women” will be in July in the Hamptons and this is one not to be missed. It will be a brunch because I just do not enjoy breakfast as much as I do lunch…so it will be a brunch. I am hoping to have as many as 50 women uniting together, making new friends and promoting their business to the group for our support. I am looking for ideas to make the next event even better than the 1st one. If you are interested in being added to the guest list be sure to pop me an email at vleggard@gmail.com.
Hamptons Mouthpiece is going to be doing some new and exciting things this year are you on-board for the ride?

Say it ain’t so, could Sag Harbor become Mainstream? Over the last year I have noticed some changes occurring on Main Street in Sag Harbor and it is becoming very scary. I have always loved Sag Harbor because I thought it was different than East Hampton and Southampton but equally as popular. In both East Hampton and Southampton for the last 5 years Main Street has become so Mainstream where so many big chain stores dominant and many of the smaller local businesses have been forced out with extremely high rents. Many of these businesses primary focus is to reach their Manhattan clientale and therefore close up shop in early October leaving Main Street to look empty and deserted. I am frustrated with the GREED that is dominating the Hamptons, instead of Main Street looking unique and special it is looking like 5th avenue in NYC. What made the Hamptons so special was the unique retail stores that were a one-of-a-kind, you could only find it in the Hamptons.

We have seen how the seasonal and pop-up businesses in these towns have been a huge disruption for both towns with the many local year-round businesses. Many local mom and pop shops have been forced out and leases have not been renewed because others are secretly going to the landlords and offering them significant increases making it too good a deal for a landlord to turn down. The small mom&pop locations cannot compete and therefore they are seeing their life work disappear before their eyes. Many of these new businesses are not focused on reaching the community only the seasonal people and are prepared to take a loss in the winter months.

I have always loved the uniqueness of Sag Harbor because it has always been immune from big chain stores on Main Street and to some degree still is, but I wonder how long will this last. In 2010 we saw the Cigar Bar close due to many misfortunes and yet this spot still remains empty. In 2011 the spot next to the old Cigar bar remained empty, the cleaners closed and at the end of the summer season the Pizza Shop closed, then in early December the Bike Shop closed its doors and Baystreet Theatre announced that they would be leaving Sag Harbor because the landlord wants to increase their rent.

I personally think that Bay Street Theatre leaving Sag Harbor will be a huge lost for the town and Main Street, many IMG_0176businesses will feel the lost of their presence. Now the newest drama is Java Nation will also be leaving its current location, according to the East Hampton Star it is because the landlord will not be renewing the lease. In several local publications it is noted that Collette Cosignment will be taking over the location and has offered the landlord a considerable monthly increase to rent the location. I spoke to the owner of Collette to get a statement from her but she refused me and indicated that she would not be speaking to the media because rumors are escalating. I say why not set the record straight and tell your side, but once again is the primary focus to reach the local community or just a seasonal clientale who can afford to shop at this store. I am in no way indicating Collette Consignment is like one of the big Stores dominating both East Hampton and Southampton but her business reaches an affluent clientele and it’s businesses like hers that are dominating Main Street throughout the Hamptons. It has also been rumored that there are plans to put in an upscale coffee spot, I have no idea if this is true, only time will tell what will be occupying this location. According to the East Hampton Star the owners of Java Nation were not even offered an opportunity to stay and even if they were would they be able to afford such a heavy increase? Whose is the culprit for the turnover throughout Main Street in the Hamptons…I say GREED! I am disappointed that Java Nation will be closing, although I am not a loyal customer of this establishment many others are and the owners have built a very nice following. I am told it really is the only place to get fresh coffee beans and it will be a lost. My daughter says and I quote “What’s the point of coming home now”I personally thought to see her parents, but clearly it was to visit Java Nation…my feelings are somewhat hurt 🙁

It is only a matter of time before we start to see pop-ups on main street in Sag Harbor. I really hope that Sag Harbor continues to keep its uniqueness and charm of catering to everyone and not just the rich because that would be a real shame. Since I have lived in Sag Harbor I have only seen it extremely quiet in late January and February, it is busy all the time and people from all over the world come to Sag Harbor because it really does feel like you are on vacation.

We must Save Sag Harbor from the horrors of Big Brother….but how can we do this….A change is coming but are we ready for it. I hope that change is not coming this year because I love being able to support the local business. What are thoughts on what’s happening on Main Street though-out the Hamptons?